Why Men Love “Selfish” High-Value Women—And How You Can Become One In Your Dating Life
really selfish. She doesn’t lack empathy nor is she cruel. She just treats herself the way men always treat themselves — by prioritizing herself, her own dreams, her own goals, her own needs, and her own desires over relationships that could detract from her full potential.
As a result, she has no need to be committed to a man unless he brings substantial value to her life or makes life easier for her.
She restricts access to herself and her life only to men she takes seriously and who prove themselves to be worthy of her. This gives her an alluring magnetism because she is unwilling to budge on her standards and boundaries just to say she “has a man.”This is not a woman you seek unconditional love from—she can give you heaven or hell, depending on what you bring to her, and she won’t give you the wife or girlfriend experience at a discounted rate—she won’t negotiate her standards just so you can get a bargain.
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