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In a world that pressures us to conform and toe the line, it can be hard to live a fulfilling, authentic life.

Going Places is one of five nonprofit organizations SUCCESS magazine is spotlighting during the week of . Early in November, we posted on our social media accounts asking followers to nominate a charity they felt was making an impact in their communities. We tallied up the nominations and are pleased to highlight the hard work these organizations are doing behind the scenes to better the lives of others.In the fall of 2016, when Katie Blomquist worked as a first-grade teacher at a in South Carolina, a boy in her class asked her for a bike for his birthday.

The Making a Difference Foundation (which encompasses Eloise’s Cooking Pot Food Bank), is one of five nonprofit organizations SUCCESS magazine is spotlighting during the week of Giving Tuesday. Early in November, we posted on our social media accounts asking followers to nominate a charity they felt was making an impact in their communities. We tallied up the nominations and are pleased to highlight the hard work these organizations are doing behind the scenes to better the lives of others.In 2003, Ahndrea Blue went on a mission trip to Chile and Peru, where she built schools and helped feed people in need.

The Bautista Project is one of five nonprofit organizations SUCCESS magazine is spotlighting during the week of Giving Tuesday. Early in November, we posted on our social media accounts asking followers to nominate a charity they felt was making an impact in their communities. We tallied up the nominations and are pleased to highlight the hard work these organizations are doing behind the scenes to better the lives of others.The Bautista Project knows how to help the homeless.

Giving birth is a significant life event. Some births are joyous and fast, while others are more traumatic and difficult. It’s crucial that every birth experience is honored and respected. However, it’s pretty common for parents to need extra time and support to heal during postpartum. 

“Tonglen reverses the usual logic of avoiding suffering and seeking pleasure. In this process…we begin to feel love for both ourselves and others; we begin to take care of ourselves and others. Tonglen awakens our compassion and introduces us to a far bigger view of reality.” ~Pema Chodron

Early childhood teachers have an incredibly important job: nurturing and educating young children during the most critical stages of development. The teaching strategies for early childhood teachers can have an immense impact on children’s mental growth and eagerness for future education. This is why it is so vital for teachers to stay lifelong learners themselves – constantly growing their knowledge and skills to provide the best learning environment for their young students.

Q: “How can I help my teen, who has ADHD, make better decisions without overstepping or giving unwanted advice?”Part of parenting a teen successfully is shifting from being your child’s CEO to their board of advisors. It’s a difficult transition, especially when a teen’s prefrontal cortex lags in maturity due to ADHD, and they don’t always make the wisest decisions. But if your goal is to raise an adult who can think critically, solve their own problems, and live on their own successfully, the path to independence starts now.When you find yourself longing to tell your teen what to do, stop.

Q: “We’ve recently started a daily report card with one of my students with ADHD to improve their behavior, but we haven’t seen any changes yet. What can we do to make this tool work more effectively?”Daily report cards are among the most powerful evidence-based tools that educators have to encourage better behavior in students.

Q: My spouse and I have agreed to divorce. How should I talk to my kids, who have ADHD, about this in a way that will keep their emotions from spinning out of control?Talking to your kids about your decision to divorce is difficult, especially when symptoms of ADHD and emotional dysregulation are at play. Here are some tips to help this conversation go smoothly.First, be brief and straightforward.

She was named a hero in Time magazine’s list of Most Influential People in the World. HBO made a Golden Globe-winning movie about her life. She is an author, scientist, professor, and mentor.Temple Grandin sat down recently with ADDitude for a candid conversation about growing up autistic in the 1950s and 1960s, and how society today can ignite and encourage brilliant, neurodivergent minds.Q: You say that you think primarily in pictures. You are an object visualizer, while visual-spatial minds think in patterns, and language thinkers feast on words. How is our education system today failing different thinkers?Educators are pushing algebra because they think it’s a prerequisite to logical thinking.

“‘Finding yourself’ is actually returning to yourself. An unlearning, an excavation, a remembering who you were before the world got its hands on you.” ~Emily McDowell

conducted by Werklabs and The Mom Project, researchers wrote, “There are few words in our contemporary workplace lexicon that are more divisive than ‘flexible.’ From hot-desking and hybrid schedule to the very nature of our workplace hierarchies, the once-immutable norms of our American office structures are not only up for debate, but determinative of success.” And at the crux of these decisions are the more than 91% of working parents in our country trying to do, and be, it all.Here’s what experts and moms want working parents to know about the necessary and well-deserved flexibility into your current or future role.Times are changing, which we’ve known since the pandemic, but this time they are here to stay. Old work structures aren’t working for some parents.

Not available November 29? Don’t worry. Register now and we’ll send you the replay link to watch at your convenience.Parenting practices have evolved alongside our understanding of children’s social-emotional development.

“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.” ~Sam Keen

October 19, 2023Red Dye No. 3 is one of four food additives now banned by the landmark California Food Safety Act, the first law of its kind in the United States.

“Children must be taught how to think, not what to think.” — Margaret MeadOur children grow up so fast. Before we know it they’re out there somewhere in the real world, and we’re left hoping that we’ve done enough to prepare them for everything they’ll encounter.

subconsciously, which can leave profound marks on their children. If you identify with the following signs, it’s possible you grew up with manipulative parents:Growing up under manipulative guidance often leads to trust issues in adulthood.

We’ve come a long way in our understanding and treatment of ADHD. Decades of well-executed studies have yielded a vast collection of articles that resulted in greater understanding of the developmental course of ADHD and the contemporary perception of ADHD as a lifespan condition.Today, we understand the importance of studying the functional impact of ADHD, including the impediments it may represent, the strengths inherent in an ADHD profile, and the impact of the condition on daily living, social interactions, and academic or professional performance. Yet I am convinced that many of the gains made over the past 25 year have not found their way into the classroom.I am a clinician, teacher, consultant to schools, and writer.

relationship with a mother-in-law can be a delicate dance. While these relationships can be filled with love and affection, they can also become a source of tension and stress. Recognizing signs of toxic behavior can empower you to set boundaries and protect your well-being.

“Children need to feel seen. Adults do, too.” ~Unknown

By Jerome Schultz, Ph.D.Traditional carrots and sticks don’t motivate students with ADHD. Here, Jerome Schultz, Ph.D., reveals why.

, Hines uses the power of storytelling to empower people to seek the help that will save their lives. His documentary film, , which he co-wrote and starred in, won the award for Best Story at the Nice International Film Festival in 2018, and his story has reached hundreds of millions of people around the world. Hines experienced the power of storytelling first-hand, shortly after his attempt off the Golden Gate Bridge.

When looking for a space-saving option, many parents find that the best mini crib models offer both comfort and convenience. The best mini crib takes up less room, making it a potential favorite for parents who might not have a lot of space.

… there are lots of jobs out there where you can make 60-80K, so like pretty comfortable salaries, and not do that much work, and be remote,” says Gabrielle Judge, the influencer behind the viral and who’s known as the “Anti Work Girlboss.” She now has nearly 156,000 followers and 3 million likes on her TikTok. Here’s what a “lazy girl job” is, and what experts think about the trend.Judge gives a few examples of jobs that lend themselves to this—marketing associates, account managers or customer success managers.

As a parent, you’ve probably asked yourself many times questions, such as: Am I raising my children the best way that I can? or What is the right way to raise a child?

Narcissistic behavior in children can be challenging to identify, but it’s essential for parents, caregivers, and educators to recognize these signs early to provide appropriate guidance and support. Narcissism in children is not the same as clinical narcissistic personality disorder, but it may indicate underlying issues that require attention.

Narcissistic personality traits are characterized by an excessive need for admiration, a lack of empathy, and a sense of entitlement. While narcissism is typically associated with adults, some children may exhibit early signs of narcissistic behavior.

Admit it: when you were a kid, being sent to the principal’s office was one of your biggest fears. For some parents of children with ADHD, it still is one of our biggest fears.Having to talk to teachers (or counselors, principal, or disciplinary officers, etc.) is part of having a child with ADHD. Often, these conversations can become angry discussions about what is best for the child and whose responsibility it is to meet those needs.

, author and parents of five kids, who wrote and are also real estate investors. Their book’s subheadline reads, “You have 18 summers to create lasting connection with your children.”It’s a concept and a hashtag that influencers have run with ever since. For working parents, those messages are fraught with so many guilt-inducing issues, self-blame and general overwhelm that they shouldn’t have to deal with on top of the regular stressors of working and parenting life.

Not available October 10? Don’t worry. Register now and we’ll send you the replay link to watch at your convenience.Kids are better able to focus on schoolwork when the home they live in is organized and conducive to learning.

“Many oppositional teens have a loud internal voice that tells them they’re a failure; they can’t do things right; no one likes them; they’re stupid. You name it,” says author and ADHD expert Sharon Saline, Psy.D.

EXPERT WEBINAR ON SEPTEMBER 7:Register here for “The Unspoken Truths of Postpartum Depression” with Dr. Jayne Singer.Postpartum depression (PPD) is a serious but treatable condition that occurs during pregnancy or after childbirth.

Popular media and big-box commercials paint the back-to-school season as an exciting time, full of fresh starts and fresh school supplies. But for parents of kids with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia, the reality is more challenging.Understood.org’s Back-to-School Stress Study, conducted online by The Harris Poll, revealed that parents of neurodivergent children feel a lot of stress about the back-to-school season.

, Advancing Women in Tech, which “accelerates careers and addresses diversity gaps in leadership.” The organization, for which she now serves as board chair, has helped more than 40,000 people to date via mentoring and training materials delivered via Coursera.We asked Wang about leadership in the tech sector and how she’s paved her path to success.This interview has been edited for length and clarity.Nancy Wang: The tech industry has an average 15 to 20% women in technical roles. I just took a look at my team’s diversity stats, and our average is at least three times that. So, I am really just proud to see that.

“My 11-year-old is so frustrated with school and feels so little success that he has given up. He is so anxious and dysregulated all the time. Where do I even start!?”“My son refuses systems of organization, and he’s insulted by my suggestions. He is 15 and knows he has ADHD, but he feels like he’s doing fine and doesn’t need help. I don’t know where to go from here.”“What if my child won’t collaborate? I can’t get any buy-in.”[Get This Free Download: 4 Secrets to Motivating Students with ADHD]Motivation problems brought on by ADHD can create and multiply challenges for your teen in just about every corner of life.

Parental burnout — characterized by overwhelming exhaustion, emotional distancing from one’s children, and a sense of parental ineffectiveness — may result from chronic stress and a lack of resources, plus inability to cope.1 Parental burnout skyrocketed during the pandemic, when 66% of working parents reported feeling burned out, according to a study from Ohio State University.2Some caregivers face greater risk of parental burnout, including women and parents of neurodivergent children. Parents with ADHD, especially those who are raising children with the same condition, also face an elevated risk for stress, parenting challenges (exacerbated by symptoms of ADHD), coping difficulties, and exhaustion — a perfect storm for burnout.345If you’re wondering whether you’re experiencing signs of parental burnout, answer the questions below and share the results with a licensed mental health professional.This self-test — drafted by ADDitude editors and informed, in part, by The Parental Burnout Assessment — is designed to screen for the possibility of parental burnout, and it is intended for personal use only. This test is not intended as a diagnostic tool.Time is Up! Time's upCan’t see the self-test questions above? Click here to open this test in a new window.1 Mikolajczak, M., Gross, J. J., & Roskam, I. (2019). Parental Burnout: What Is It, and Why Does It Matter? Clinical Psychological Science, 7(6), 1319–1329. https://doi.org/10.1177/21677026198584302 Gawlik, K., Melnyk Mazurek, B. (2022). Pandemic parenting: Examining the epidemic of working parental burnout and strategies to help. The Ohio State University. https://wellness.osu.edu/sites/default/files/documents/2022/05/OCWO_ParentalBurnout_3674200_Report_FINAL.pdf3 Chroni

The “mainstreaming” of kids with disabilities into general education school classrooms has become ubiquitous, but its success rate is only moderate. This practice woefully fails at remediating behaviors that are manifestations of a student’s disability.

Q: “As a white educator, how can I better communicate and connect with families of color, especially when a student is exhibiting learning and behavioral challenges that I suspect may be due to ADHD, a learning difference, or another undiagnosed condition? I understand that due to systemic racism and historical wrongs, Black families and families from marginalized groups have a lot of reasons not to trust me initially. They’re justified in their concerns that I may be biased.”Without realizing it, some teachers harbor biases or believe stereotypes about minority students that affect their behavior. It’s wise for educators to weigh racial and cultural considerations before approaching a family about their student’s ADHD-related learning or behavioral struggles.

If he applied himself, he’d be at the top of his class.”“She will lose recess until she learns to listen in class.”Parents get frustrated or angry, understandably, when teachers make comments like these about their child. Most teachers mean well, believing they’re sharing important observations and interventions. But because few teachers have received specific training in ADHD and executive function skill development, these remarks seldom improve the situation.

Growing up with a narcissistic parent can be challenging and emotionally taxing. Narcissistic parents often prioritize their own needs over their children’s well-being, leading to complex family dynamics. However, there are ways to navigate this difficult situation while safeguarding your own mental and emotional health.

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Q: “I’m currently in all advanced classes, but I still struggle with remembering due dates, procrastinating, zoning out when my mind wanders, and losing points due to silly mistakes. Whenever I bring up my ADHD-related behaviors (forgetfulness, fidgeting, constant daydreaming, losing interest in personal projects when the novelty wears off, being contrary, etc.), my parents act like I’m exaggerating.

Raising a child is no easy endeavor. It can be even more challenging when your child needs therapy for physical, emotional, or behavioral issues. A comprehensive guide to pediatric therapy can give parents the building blocks of success they need to ensure their children are supported and nurtured throughout their developmental years. With this special edition of “Building Strong Foundations: A Comprehensive Guide to Pediatric Therapy from Little Ones to Teens”, we aim to make the foundation laid through pediatric therapies stronger by providing expert advice on how best to combine different forms of therapies aimed at promoting healthy growth and development in young children and teenagers alike.

“Sometimes people wound us because they’re wounded and tell us we’re broken because that’s how they feel, but we don’t have to believe them.” ~Lori Deschene

The first few months following your child’s birth are spent adjusting to your new life. You may be learning what each of your child’s cries means, bonding with them late into the night, and finding ways to juggle household tasks with a newborn. We have compiled a list of tips to help you make it through your baby’s first year.

The transition to college is really exciting — and really anxiety-provoking. Academic expectations and demands on executive functions both spike as teens begin to independently steer all sorts of new responsibilities — from laundry to shopping for shampoo.

Not available August 8? Don’t worry. Register now and we’ll send you the replay link to watch at your convenience.For parents who are divorced or contemplating a divorce, and who have children with ADHD, there are unique developmental and emotional needs to consider when figuring out how to coparent across households.