Sometimes people unintentionally end up in bad relationships with the wrong people. And while we may all silently think to ourselves that we will never be the person who stays with the wrong one- it’s much easier to say that until you get put in that position.Many people end up in a toxic relationship, no matter how intelligent they may be, no matter how much they have going for them, and no matter what it looks like from the outside looking in. The thing is, when it comes to love, there is no such thing as logic.
We’ve all witnessed someone we love to stay in a relationship that is not good for her. Or, perhaps, we’ve been that girl. But what is it that pushes a woman to stay in a bad relationship?Well, there are multiple reasons and all of them are rooted in our psychological makeup.
I will go over them here.It might sound cliché, but the thing is, women need to have a healthy relationship with their fathers to help them learn to navigate through relationships later on. When you have a difficult relationship with your father, it can cause you to become accustomed to and accepting of unhealthy connections. From the perspective of someone who had a father who pretty much dipped out of my life in the years in which I needed him most, I know how difficult that wound can be, and how much I clung to the wrong men time and time again, looking for that same love.If you believe you are unable to be manipulated, you just haven’t met the right manipulator, or you are delusional.
Don’t get me wrong, I am not trying to come off as callous, but we have all been manipulated in one way or the other. In relationships, manipulators can be smart, knowing exactly how to make you fall for them and then using your love against you. Even the
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