is not working.Even if it seems like the “rug was pulled out from under you,” it wasn’t. This hadn’t been working for a long time and you were in denial.
Your delusions and dreams about how it would transform into something you want it to be are just that — unreal. It’s time to get out of that and into reality, into the now, into your actual life.That is what it means to start over.It does not always mean to wipe the slate clean, to mourn for what was pulled away from us mercilessly and without warning.It usually means that it’s time to reconcile what we’ve known wasn’t working all along, what those things were acting as a bandaid for.
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