In my article “5 Things That Can Make Sex Better (Or at Least More Tolerable) For Sexual Assault Survivors,” I mention boundaries as being critical to making sexual intimacy feel safer for sexual assault survivors.
But how do we convey those boundaries? And more importantly, how do we even know what those boundaries are? I admit that the thing that took me the longest to figure out was what felt good or bad to me where sex is concerned.
Because of my sexual abuse and my mothers covert incest, the typical exploratory period that most adolescents go through where sex is concerned was something I skipped.
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