“The way of love is not a subtle argument. The door there is devastation. Birds make great sky-circles of their freedom.
How do they learn it? They fall, and falling, they are given wings.” ~Rumi You can create your dream life from devastation.
I speak from first-hand experience. On Thanksgiving Day, my husband knelt before me and said he didn’t think he loved me anymore and didn’t think he wanted to have children.
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