The sudden switch from hero to zero, from princess to pauper, from “good person” to “bad person” is perhaps the most confusing, bewildering and upsetting part of our behavior. People cannot comprehend why they were being feted as the love of our life on Monday and then by Tuesday they are the devil incarnate.It is something which causes (and of course we want this) victims of our nefarious behavior to cling to us in order to get an answer, to receive an explanation and some kind of reasoning which will allow them to make sense of what has happened. They are unlikely to accept it, the emotional hold of the seduction and the golden period prevents acceptance of this sudden fall from grace for a very long time, but if you are able to.
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