make your relationship last.If you want your partner to do something healthy toward healing your relationship, you don’t want to start by pointing fingers at them.
It takes two people to tango, and you want to appeal to their sensitive side. The worst thing you can do is put them in defensive mode from the start.Make everything you say about “we” and not them.
Remember the old saying that you’ll get more flies with honey than vinegar? Well, it’s undoubtedly true. Be nice, and you probably will get further than if you make the reason you need help all about their wrongdoings.You may want to tell your partner your intentions for therapy from the start.Read more on powerofpositivity.com