Mean Girls with and a job that doesn’t drive you into a self-loathing spiral. So, why does cutting out anything that’s not this feel so, well, wrong?Is it because these incredibly high standards are allowing the real gems to fall through the cracks or because at the end of the day, what you’re doing, although possibly motivated by others, is not for anyone else.
That relationships and jobs aren’t rewards for self-work, and thinking that will only leave you lonelier and sadder than ever before.
Using external validation as your meter for self-worth will only take you further away from fulfillment, because the reward for healing is being healed, not a person or a title.Not settling for less is a testament to your self-love.
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