specific criteria are met. It makes sense that you put the same expectation on others when it comes to giving you their love.Subconsciously, you wind up walking around with the belief you can only be loved if you show up as anyone but your truest self.
You will lower your standards, disregard your own values, loosen your boundaries, and put a price on being loved.The price is high.In exchange for being loved, you self-sacrifice on so many levels.
You do all that is asked of you in relationships, you hide parts of you, you keep quiet, give all your energy, time, money, and happiness.Not only do these sacrifices totally batter your self-esteem, they eventually lead to resentment as your own needs are left unmet.
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