“I get sick of people telling me what not to do, and then not telling me what to do.” No one likes to hear they are doing something wrong.
Sometimes, it can be a thing of just feeling a bit foolish; like someone pointing out you are pulling on a door with a sign saying, “push.” Other times, it can be downright demoralizing, leaving the person wishing they had never tried in the first place.
I have been on the giving and receiving end of the latter. I have had to learn how to sort through the giving part as a tool to do better the next time.
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