And because we have only been given very inadequate descriptions of grief, I had to find new words to describe my own aftermath.Calling it grief was always inadequate.It is an out of body experience. It is like I live in two places.We get pumped out of time, out of place, out of body.But the only person who sees it, is us.We are also told that if we talk about them years down the road we must be stuck.I can laugh like a mad woman about this last part.Sure it’s complicated, but not the way they think it is.You don’t just remember the person you lost, you are with them in an unspoken way.You hold their beingness with you.It’s an inner experience that can only be described as a miracle.It’s as if they are forever yours.
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