When I was younger, I used to mull over past relationships with that natural urge to figure out what went wrong and how I (or they) failed.
It’s human nature to want to identify the dissolution of a relationship and assign blame or chalk an experience up to mismatched timing.
However, as I got older and settled into an established relationship those concerns slowly drifted away and my focus and emotional health shifted towards other areas of concern.
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