What is the difference between showing up and showing off? Have you ever felt stifled, or held back when you want to say something in the moment, or do something different?
But you feel you shouldn’t say it, or do the thing you want to? The next thought is likely to be one where you imagine what the other person is going to say or do and you imagine being judged.
You don’t say or do what you want to when all you’re really wanting to do is show up… So, what holds us back? The underlying belief that you may be judged as a ‘show-off.’ What I’ve found over the years of considering how humans act in different situations is that we allow ourselves to be influenced by other people in various situations when all we really want to do is show up and