emotional trigger, something she called “love him longer, love him stronger”. This mechanism kicked in whenever Sophia was in danger of falling out of love or in love with the “wrong” kind of person and played on her emotions every little trick to prolong the point of separation.Known by one or another name, “love them longer, love them stronger” is a scheme many of us had recourse to when faced with emotional unavailability or indecisiveness in a partner.
Leading one to emotionally invest more than they receive, it is an attempt to catch that warm gust of air from another’s valley of emotional coldness and chill.For a time, the scheme may work.
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