My name is joshua. My pronouns are they/them/theirs and joshua. I am neuro-queer and gender-vague. I also have no name; or pronouns; or neuro-type; or gender; and i am no-one.
Having a break-down woke me up to the understanding that my identity has been largely shaped by external sources. “My” given birth-name is Joshua, and “my” given nick-name is Josh. “My” given pronouns are he/him, and “my” given “sex/gender” is male/man.
And so on. I didn’t choose these things as fundamental parts of my identity. I agreed to them. This realization spiraled until every aspect of my life had been erratically analyzed for instances of external identity-molding.
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