I grew up in the 80s and 90s where using derogatory slang words was somehow acceptable. The R-word along with other inappropriate terms came out of my mouth often.
I am not proud to have to admit this, however, I can very confidently say that as I have grown so has my mind, my vocabulary and my empathy towards people and their feelings.
All too often I hear people say, words are just words. Yes, but they also carry weight, the amount of weight they carry depends on who you are and/or the challenges you have had to face.
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