why we behave the way we do around the holidays.Sarajane Case, author of and the expert behind the wildly popular Instagram account , describes our Enneagram type as what we learned as children that we had to be in order to survive, get attention or earn love. “It’s the tactics we chose in order to get our way,” Sarajane says. “When we go home for the holidays and we are around our families of origin for any extended period of time, [our number] becomes more vivid and amplified.” Once we know to look for it, the pattern of behavior we turn to when we aren’t getting what we want is easy to spot in ourselves because we’ve spent a lifetime perfecting it.
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