One of the most important decisions an individual can make is to invest in a relationship. As with any important decision it pays to be careful.
Imagine for a moment that you are wanting to buy a car: this is a pretty important purchase for most people, so you don’t want to be flippant about it.
What you WOULDN’T do is wander on to a random car lot and throw fistfuls of money at whatever shiny 4-wheeled object happened to catch your eye.
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