.There is only one thing you can control in this world, and that is yourself. You can’t control the weather, other drivers, your kids or spouse, or anything outside of your own beliefs, thoughts, attitudes and actions.
Focus all of your attention on developing yourself and doing what is right—controlling yourself while letting what will happen, happen—and you will find happiness opening up within you.
First, know what you want. Get clear with yourself. Take a private retreat to be alone if you have to, but come to grips with what you want your life to look like.Read more on success.com