I was just scrolling through my TikTok, and immediately got bombarded with about five videos back to back full of relationship advice.
One of the videos was titled “5 Signs They’re Not That Into You” and the person talking mentioned how if they text you later on in the day or have gaps between response times, they aren’t willing to make time for you so you need to swipe left or dump them or whatever colloquial term you want to use.
I sat with this because it didn’t feel right. I take a while to text back for multiple reasons: 1. I have attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) so if I open that message and don’t immediately respond, I probably unintentionally forgot. 2. I try not to be glued to my phone all day talking to people because it negatively affects my mental health. 3. I like to talk to people when I have the mental capacity to, and I’m not always able to just carve that capacity out if I don’t have it.Read more on themighty.com