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How to Intentionally “Slow-Boil” into Your Desired Future Self

“The best way to predict the future is to create it.” — Abraham LincolnA friend of mine recently told me he was getting divorced from his wife of over 20 years. I wasn’t surprised at all.

Over the past five years, I’ve watched this friend shift his belief system and identity. He’s not the same person he was five years ago.

He doesn’t want the same things he wanted five, 10, or 20 years ago. His imagined future self no longer involves him being married to the woman he once believed he would be with forever.My friend’s choice is his own.

My interest as a psychologist is understanding how these things happen.This article explains how our identity and goals are formed. It also shows how you can intentionally “slow boil” yourself into whoever

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