saying no to others.At a high level, focusing on yourself is about paying attention: What do you truly want? What’s standing between you and your best, happiest, goal-conquering self?Just like everyone else on this planet, you deserve to get what you want out of life.
That doesn’t mean you’re a selfish person; it simply means you’re the one who has to work for it.Say your goal in life is to be an amazing parent.
To do that, you can’t take care of your kids 24/7. Although you’re going to have to clean up after them sometimes, you can’t support them without a stable career.
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