Discover how being defensive almost ruined my relationship and learn how to manage your defensiveness. My boyfriend went silent, and a chill set in between us.
We’d had an argument. These little spats had always ended with disconnection and loss of “that lovin’ feeling.” What had gone wrong?
My first response was to blame him because it couldn’t have been my fault. However, I replayed our conversation in my head, and I heard myself reacting to a comment he’d made about my past as it related to today.
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