Have you ever experienced “crazy-making,” AKA gaslighting? It’s when an abuser flips things around to make you seem like the problem.
They do and say things to make it seem like they are the victims of your abuse. I prefer the term “crazy-making” because that’s exactly what it feels like.
They make you doubt yourself and get others to doubt you as well. I have experienced this pretty much my whole life. When I was a child, I was desperate to escape the constant abuse I lived with.
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