I cannot expect the process to be linear. Healing doesn’t happen to you in a straight line, it comes at you in a zigzag formation, with a lot of peaks and valleys that you have to maneuver through.A lot of us think that healing should happen quickly, but when the healing process is rushed, do you experience true healing? No.When you rush healing, all you are doing is making your “wound,” deeper, which is only going to cause you to have to experience a longer healing process.
You can try covering up how you feel and pushing it to the side, only for it to hit you like a million bricks at a random time and place.The zigzagginess of healing is how it is meant to happen, so don’t let it discourage you and make you think that you aren’t healing.
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