Who suffers more? Endures more? Works more? The spouse with ADHD, or the spouse without? It’s easy to believe that your role — whichever one that may be — is the hardest.
But when comparison enters a marriage, nobody wins — not even the one who’s “in the right.”So who has it tougher? That’s really not a valid or helpful question.
These are: What’s difficult for you, and what’s difficult for me? And how can we understand each other?My husband (who has ADHD) and I (who don’t) recently sat down and had a frank conversation about ADHD.Read more on additudemag.com