There are many reasons, but today I want to focus on the lens. The lens, the way in which one sees their environment.Let’s back up.
Let’s start with what women are taught as young girls. Simply put, we are taught, ‘you aren’t good enough unless you have a partner or get married.’ This societal teaching leads women to be focused on securing a partner versus securing the right partner for her.
In turn, we end up acting from a place of insecurity and low self-esteem, when we need someone else to validate our worth. The flipside, when we are secure and confident, teaches us to think ‘what do I actually need?’ and to focus on making choices that fulfill ourselves.We have all been in this situation….girlfriends sitting around at brunch reading.Read more on positivelypositive.com