Do you believe that children fighting is completely wrong, and anytime that happens, grown-ups should intervene immediately? Many parents believe that children shouldn’t fight, and because they believe that children shouldn’t fight, they interject themselves in that fighting when it is taking place.
What if that belief is an old, hand-me-down belief? What if we were to discover that what we are truly bothered by when our children are fighting has nothing to do with the fighting itself?
What if we were to discover that the true disturbance in those moments is the emotion and feelings that are triggered inside of us by that event?
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