1. Playing the victim card. This, in my opinion, is probably the most toxic relationship habit. Of course, being a fragile and self-pitying human being who constantly complains about their life may seem like a simple method of avoiding troublesome situations.
But there is a big difference between actually being a victim and playing the victim card. And believe me, that line is not that blurry here. 2. Keeping score about everything. The scorecard phenomenon is when the person you are dating digs up your past and starts to blame you for past mistakes that you’ve made to justify their current righteousness.
This is very destructive since it is a way of manipulating another person into making them feel wrong in the PRESENT for a mistake they
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