Person 1: *Puts on a unique outfit with a bright floral pattern and walks out feeling confident.*Person 2: “That outfit is really ugly; you must have no fashion taste.”A critical comment appears and person 1’s self esteem is tested because something they care about and put love into has been received negatively. Person 1: *internally thinks* Does this comment help me grow as a person?
Is my outfit really ugly? Or is it just not to their taste? Do I stand by my outfit? Does it make me feel happy and cute?It does, I like this outfit.Person 1: “Thank you for your opinion, but I love my outfit and it’s my unique style.
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