When you use insults during an argument, it negates the good times you’ve had in your relationship. The good memories will become tainted with the hurtful words, disrupting the bond the two of you share.
You don’t want one moment of anger in the present to ruin all of the memories and good times you share. ADVERTISEMENT Before you say something that you don’t mean, remember this reason to avoid using hurtful words.
Try to keep the argument productive rather than saying things that can negatively change everything.While your partner might forgive some of your hurtful words, that may not always be the case.